Poor Lucilla! How will she get over being dumped by DH?
Lu’s quest to find love hasn’t been so great. Her marriage to Miles ended and her relationship with David Genaro was not that fulfilling. Loneliness once led Lu to bed S’fiso.
But then just as she was ready to give up on love, DH arrived offering her all the things that her heart yearned for. He surprised her with a wine picnic, played the saxophone for her, and even flew her to another country for lunch! But all of that has now ended.
Heartbreak is never easy and can be a confusing time so we prepared a list of things we think can help Lu get over DH.
1. Dial a friend
In times of emergency, dial a friend. Instead of soaking herself in tears or drunk-dialling DH, Lu should call Gail and cry it out. Gail understands Lu’s past heartaches and failed relationships and how much she wanted the relationship with DH to work.
2. Spend time with Buhle
It’s been a while since Lu spent quality time with her son. A child’s laughter and a simple act like watching them play can help put a smile back on Lu’s face. Kids are carefree and bubbly and can remind you of life’s simple pleasures.
3. Get back in studio
UK singer Adele is proof that a failed relationship can spurn something good. Her breakup CD, 21, sold millions of copies and made her super famous and rich. Instead of crying about it, Lu should hit the studio and put all those emotions into sounds. Who knows what can happen?
4. Go on holiday
A holiday is a great form of escapism and getting some “me” time. A holiday can help Lu recharge and restore her energy levels. Time away from everything will offer her some time to reflect on what she wants in life and how to achieve this. Sticking around could delay the process of moving on from DH as everything around her will remind her of DH.
5. Invest more time in her career
Now that Lu has some free time, she should invest more time in her career. It’s no doubt that Lu loves her work so she should focus on the radio station, Nine9, and how she can take it to newer heights.
How do you get over a break up?
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